Wow! So much to share, but I'll just give a piece....for me, a big thing I've learned is that I had to be in my purpose before I could consider a dating relationship. Having 6 years of uninterrupted singleness, I had the focus to pursue God's purpose. So by the time my wife came along, it was like she was part of the package rather than a distraction!
that it can take its toil on you. having been in a relationship for almost 8 years i realized that i never had time to talk to God at all and now since im single it is a blessing that me and God can finally talk one on one
It can lead me further away from God rather then closer if its not the right time or the right one that GOD has made for me and things that are not of god are not good and only good can bare good fruit thats what Ive learned and it can turn in to lust
3 Big Points:
1. “Marriage—when it's good, ain't nothin’ like it, but when it's bad, ain't nothing like it.
2. Be either all in or all out.
3. Divorce is not an option. When Fernando Cortés set foot on the New World, he burned his ships to signify that retreat was not an option. Marriage vows include the phrase “till death do us part” and “for better or for worse” (or something like that). Burn the boat of divorce and explore the New World of marriage!